THE ULTIMATE AFFAIR WEDDINGS, EVENTS, FLOWERS and PHOTOGRAPHY
Maryland Wedding Planning, Maryland Wedding Photographer, Maryland Wedding Flowers, Washington D.C. Wedding Planning, Washington D.C. Wedding Photographer, Washington D.C. Wedding Flowers AND NOW....Maryland's GREEN WEDDING SPECIALIST

    

 

 
 We ensure that every element comes together with style and efficiency. The flow, timing and execution of a wedding day is as important as the details themselves. Focusing on service and making sure your guests are felt taken care of is at the forefront of Ultimate Affair commitment to excellence, allowing you to relax and enjoy your wedding day,the planning company of choice for savvy and stylish clients,
 
 
 
 
 Ultimate Affair prides ourselves in providing exceptional bridal flowers. As well as one of a kind events.

Discussed in a one to one bridal consultation with Pomela, you will together pick a style of bouquet and a variety of flowers that will not only suit your dress and chosen theme but also will reflect your personality.  We cater for the funky and modern and also for the more traditional bride.

We have an extensive catalogue to browse through and prices will be given at consultation.  From exquisite cascading shower bouquets  to simplistic handtied bouquets, we really do have something for everyone.  Rarely do our brides ever have the same bouquet.  We like your flowers, like your wedding, to be unique....

After your consultation, you can then, at your lesuire decide if you would like to go ahead and book with us, there is no obligation what so ever.  We hope that you will enjoy your consultation.  Please call us to book an appointment. 

If you work during the week, we do offer a late night service that runs Monday through Thursday ,we are always a phone call or email away.We can provide from the smallest detail to the big picture for you.

410-272-2721

 

Here is a little blurb from the wedding on Saturday. 

 



Pam  wultimateaffair@aol.com
 

 

 

 

May 11,2009

First of all I want to wish all of you a great day, With Spring in the air,

Love is all around at Ultimate Affair, With Ultimate Affair,all your dreams

can become reality, With weddings or just a party,With everyone worried as to how they are going to be able to have the event with the high cost of things,and the not knowing where to start,At Ultimate Affair,We had been in business since 1985 ,I can help you have the event that can become a reality. Where you can and will get the most for your money, We have a great list of vendors that we work with, That can help you with all your event needs. and I'm not talking Chicken.Unless that is what you want. We do events in DC,VA,MD,PA,DE, or you would like us to work with you, If you want even a great backyard event, or a five star hotel, We can help you with that as well, There is no barriers, as to what we can help you with. I look forward to hearing from you at anytime, day or night, I don't limit emails or phone calls, our clients come first, Well See you on Pam's page with some email questions answered.

Thanks

Pomela

wultimateaffair@aol.com

410-272-2721   

 

PS, I also wanted to thank each and everyone for your support in the Northern Virgina Flavors for the national liver foundation, Event, I am proud to also help with the flavors of Baltimore on September 16,2009

Also you can  have a chance to win one of  www.cyndyesty.com purses,they are way fabu, They are owned by Oprah,Allicia Keys, and others as well. Also I am happy to let everyone know about these great wedding gowns.   http://www.gwendolyngleason.com they are just wonderful, and refreshing gowns, So feel free to check them out, I will be post the must haves for all events in the coming weeks, Thanks

and Love be the answer to all things great,

Pam

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

April 27,2009

I wanted to let all of you know about a great site, Called Sokobe,

They are in NY, They have some great deals, and here is the great part

as part of the  ,  just launched there site and are giving away FREE $4,600 1 ct Diamond Ring http://is.gd/tFGP   I would love for  one of you to win this, WOW wish I could enter, "Love some Bling" 

Ben should be open in the next few days, and I will keep you up on that front, as well, I hope all is well with everyone,

 

Pam

wultimateaffair@aol.com

410-272-2721

 

09. 

Well I have been really busy to update the site, but as most of you know,Ben is opening the new studio, it should be done in the next few days, and The emails have been going out for the new classes, if you want to learn the art of taking pics as Ben does, please email me at

wultimateaffair@aol.com and I can send the different classes that will be offered, they are really affordable, Maybe a girls night would be a great thing as well, and all know how his sense of humor is.

So we have been booking great parties, weddings, for this year and next year, I can't stress enough, if you would like to book us, we do book fast, So we do offer affordable payment plans, So we can work with you, So that you have have that great party, you have always wanted.If you want that great fun party, then we are the company to do that, I don't know about you, but remember the last event you went to, Boring, Dried Chicken, well not at Ultimate Affair that's not happening. All of our great vendors that we work with don't know the meaning of the word boring, and we all know that I love a great party.I have also been getting some questions lately, That concern me, So I will address those on, the Pams Page , So please check it out,.

Much Happiness and Happy Spring

Pam

wultimateaffair@aol.com

410-272-2721         

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 March 13,2009

I have been asked this alot" Why should we book with you"?

The things that stand out the most for myself that is important to anyone

doing businesss with us is that of Quality, If it is not the best then I don't want it "Why would you?" I know some of the best growers around for flowers, and manufactures of products, So That is a very important thing to consider,Next is Value, which of course is the one of the best things to look for any business, I am a shopper and always looking for the best deals on all that I do in my personal life, Why not do the same for my business, I feel that I am honest and fair in all of my pricing structure, 

The next is Service, Another important aspect of my business as well as personally, I can't imaging limiting calls or emails to any of my customers, that is just bad business practice, I don't like for people  not to call me back or email , I do understand that people are busy , But hey come on, So I am always a phone call or email away. So give the best products money can bye, QUality and Service, that is the three things, that describe us, There are alot of other things as well, but this is what came to mind, When asked this question, So when you want this type of service then "We are the company for you "  You have been told often that I want it all " But my budget won't work, Well then if that is the case you really need to contact us, Because I can make most all budgets work, I do have the leverage of negotiating. Well I hope that I answered your question, and I look forward to hearing from you.

Pam

wultimateaffair@aol.com

410-272-2721  

 

 

 

 

 

Well I just wanted to let you know all that is going on, at Ultimate Affair,

as I mentioned a while back there are several great things going  on, So today , I thought I would let you know some of the wonderful things, Ben is going to open a Photography Studio/ Photograph classes as well, He has been working on the new location for his studio for the last couple of months, hammering nails, and tearing down walls, < Yeah he can do that stuff as well> So in the next fews weeks it should be done, so I will announce on here when it will be done. Also Ben and I are also  have a new hot spot for wedding rentals, Have you always dreamed or had the desire to get married by the water, where it was so romantic, great sunsets, a warm breeze, Well if you are that couple who has always wanted that, but thought you couldn't afford it, Then you really need to call and find out all the great deals, This is a site for all romantics at heart, truely a great find. So for now have a great romantic day. I am posting helpful things below, and We look forward to talking and hearing from you.

Thanks

Pam and Ben

wultimateaffair@aol.com

410-272-2721

 

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Check out his new site at www.quickandeasyphotography.com.  They are booking quickly.

 

 

 

 Sometimes  I wonder what I should update, so today , it is just this. Everyone asks lots of questions about wedding and events all day. So I thought I would put some important things now on the site, that each and everyone of you.

should know, because as some of you know, I don't hold anything back, and not a sugar coating type person

. These things will be posted on. The Page Ben has put on here for me to answer things on, So It will be up

for you to read,    Each week I will post important things to help you with your event. Because frankly it is a nightmare not only for a vendor but a bride as well.Things are changing at the store, We are now selling flowers that can be delivered everywhere, also if you want to make your own, We will also be selling flowers at better prices for you, if you want to make them, Anything you want , Say you want Roses,Hydrangea, but

afraid to order it on line, Then you call us, we get them for you. I will even show you how to put them togeather . And let you know what all things you need to make them.

 That is all you have to do.Well on to somethings, of importance. I have been asked this lately, Why doesn't

Ben have a featured wedding page on here, Well he has a website www.benmichalski.com

That you can take a look at with lots of new pics on there, he will only put up ones that brides ask him to.

So I guess we could do a featured wedding page here, I will have to ask one of my many wedding customers

if they would like theres to, I love each and everyone of them so how could , We just feature one. It couldn't be

done , it would be hard for me to choose. Which one would be the best one, because they are all the best.

 

Thanks

Pam

wultimateaffair.com

 

 

A MESSAGE AND SOME GREAT FREE ADVICE FROM PAM FOR 2009 BRIDES!

    We at The Ultimate Affair want to wish everyone a great New Years Day that will be filled
with love, happiness and great health to each and everyone of you.
I would also like to post the year end review of some very important things
that I have learned in 2008.
 We all learn something new every day, these are things that  I have seen this year at all the many many weddings we have experienced this year.

 

1: Make sure your site has AC or Heat, for example, a place with No AC is well...you
got it , just  to hot for you and your guests.Just because you will save 1000.00 It is not
worth it when your guests leave after the cocktail hour or don't eat the dinner you have provided
 or not even show up when they look at the website of the place you have chosen and they see there is no AC.
 

2: Make sure the place is clean, yes clean means clean. As we do for all our clients we
do a walk through the week of to make sure these items are done before the event.
 

3: Rest Rooms; make sure there are at least 2 in any site so that you won't have
guests lined up to use them and also make sure they don't open in the room where people will be eating, one bathroom just doesn't cut it on your big day.
 

4: Make sure you have 2 bars set up or at least have 2 Bartenders there to serve drinks it
looks way bad to have the guests lined up to just to get a glass of water. No tip jars, tip jars are
tacky.
 

 5 . When serving dinner think about what your guests will really eat, even if you are on
a budget you can have a great meal that all of your guests will enjoy, heavy is
not always the way to go, especially in the heat or the extreme cold, this will also stretch your budget!
 

6:  Treat your guests well. You invited them to share in your new life as husband and wife.
 Take the time to say thank you for them coming to your wedding even if it is just a toast by you and the groom, not thanking them for coming is bad manners.
 

7.Also when hiring your vendors make sure that you put in the contract that under,
no terms are any of the vendors consume alcohol on your event. This is the equivalent to drinking on the job. The reason I am putting this on here is because I have seen it and don't like it one bit, yes I have said something to them on site, so now I have enemy's oh well, that is what you have me there for.  We don't do it, and don't feel others need to as well. This is your party and not a free for all for the hired help to "take the edge off".
 

8. Treat your vendors as you would like to be treated. If you want them to dress a certain way then ask them,
to do so, Tell them if your wedding is Black Tie, or Casual Elegance, Sad to say but some times you have
tell some people this. It is better to let your vendors know than complian later, also feed your photographer, or everyone for that matter, If you can't afford to then let me know for my brides, I have paid out of pocket for
the vendors. myself.      
 

9. When your chose your MOH Bridesmaids they are there to share in your happiness
for your big day, they are not there to wait on you hand and foot, pre wedding or during
that is why you hire a wedding planner for the "day of".  Everyone has a busy
life style now adays, also think of the budget constrictions on choosing there dress, Some
maybe can't afford 375.00 just for the dress or 100.00 for the shoes.
 

10. When doing your research, this is important, make sure that if you don't know about contracts
then ask questions, if the answer is not satisfactory....then don't sign it!
We can do this for you, just call or ask before, don't think it will go away, as for the Quote "Prices subject to change".... well it means just that, I don't want any big surprises on the "day of"  and neither do you.
 

11. Also when selecting a site ask them how many guests it will hold, if they say up to 170.
ask if you can see a set up of all the tables in place for this type of set up, if it sounds
to go to be true when you look at it... keep in mind the guests have to sit to eat, and also
think of the DJ table and other tables that need to be in that room, also if a table on your
wedding day is not set up the way you envisioned it to in its place, that is probably because
the site is to cramped for that to happen. Also try to have a table for your photographer. Good photographers bring lot's of equipment.  Also make sure the site is adaptable to guests who have special needs, This is a must for all site to have ramps and such for your guests who need this.
  Also if the site offers only there on site cater ask to speak to the chef, he will be the one doing the cooking on your day of, so that you get the type of food you want cooked the way you want it to be.
 

12. If the site doesn't have out door night lighting then ask how the guests are to
see leaving the place and check the parking situation, nothing is worse than the guests
having to walk several blocks to your event.
 

13. Check out all rules to the ceremony location , make sure that it will allow those candles
that you wanted. also what are time constraints, for being late?
 

14. When hiring a photographer make sure he gives you all rights to your pictures, this
means he gives you the right to print and share them with all your family and friends.
If not then you and your guests will be paying 3 to 10 dollars for a 4 by 6 print. Also keep in mind the
camera doesn't lie , If you are having a great time it will show in the pics, the love will show
as well, make sure they do there own editing, not send it to a lab, because they were at your
wedding not the lab tech. We do all our own in house editing, as well give you all rights as
well as other photographers I may refer you too if Ben is booked also give all rights.

15. On the DJ or Band make sure you tell him what songs you don't want to hear on your
special day, and have a CD burned with all of your special day for him, just not the name
of it, It maybe not the version you wanted.Also have a back up one as well, Everyone is
human so the DJ may not know what you are thinking of the same song.
 

16. Most important,,,Plan a lifetime not just a day, also don't go broke planning your
wedding do what you can afford to do... if you need help with this we are here for you to do so.
 
17.  I could sit here all day and put things on here that are important but, if you have questions
please let me know, and I will be sure to help you out.
 
Pam
wultimateaffair.com
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

  

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 The FTD® Flower Jeweled™ BouquetThis is a wedding arrangement for a wedding that was done recently, I will start posting pics of them after each weekend, so that you can see some of them,,  

 

 

 

 

  

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


At The Ultimate Affair you will receive  the best one-on-one attention in the industry.  Your florals are done with attention to every tiny detail.  You will receive high quality florals at modest prices.

 
 
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we have added a new service called  PHOTO LIFEGUARD
to check it out go to
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    As of last weekend all weddings will be photographed with the worlds fastest, most advanced
and powerful camera on the market.
The Canon EOS 1D Mark III. Was it expensive?
yes it was....Canon USA has just introduced it only several months ago and getting
one was like trying to find a needle in a haystack. This camera is so sought after by
professional photographers that even the big three dealers are on back order for the next
6 weeks. Canon can't keep up with the demand. I was very lucky to find one only
after contacting 26 dealers across the country.

In addition to that I have added a new HP xw4400 computer. This is a commercial
workstation with the most powerful Intel Core Duo processor on the market along with
a full ONE THOUSAND GIGABYTE RAID 5 HARD DRIVE AND 6 gigs of RAM memory
along with three digital LCD monitors in tandum
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I just want to make dang sure The Ultimate Affair and BenMichalski.Com has the most
cutting edge and state of the art equipment to offer our brides and clients for their
most precious memories...their pictures.

 

 

 

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ANNOUNCING OUR NEW TOLL FREE NUMBER

  1-866-WED-BELL

WHAT CAN WE DO FOR YOU?

  1: One of a Kind Floral Creations to fit your budget.
  2: Dazziling Digital Photography
  3: Full or Partial Planning by Ms. Pomela herself.
  4: Recommend a GREAT Caterer
  5: Recommend a RELIABLE Limo service.
  6: Book fine hotel rooms for your guest.
  7: Recommend an OUTSTANDING DJ.
  8: Make sure the vendors you have all ready contracted
      with are in fact what you contracted for.
  9: Not take any kick backs from our recommended vendors.
10: Answer any question that you may have about anything
      related to a wedding, event. photographer, vendor or facility.
11: Make dang sure you get your "Dream Wedding" for almost
      any budget.

12: Not tell you..."Sorry! We don't do weddings like yours" unless
      your under the age of 21, still married or we happen to be
      already booked.

WHO HAVE WE ALREADY HELPED HAVE A SUCCESSFUL DAY?

  1: OVER 3500 BRIDES AND GROOMS!

Can your vendor, florist, planner, co-ordinator, photographer make that claim? This is just in our new location.
 

 

 

 

 

   TWO NEW WEBSITES ARE UNDERCONSTRUCTION BY ONE
OF THE BEST SITE DESIGN WIZARDS BUSINESS. Rob Robertson
owner of
www.robertsondataservices.com 

 

 

If you or anyone you know needs a website...Rob is the man to call,
tell him Ben and Pam sent you and he will "knock your socks off!"
with 30 years of Computer Knowledge that people with advanced
degrees in Computer Science ask advice from.

AND ON A FINAL NOTE....A BIG THANKS GOES OUT TO ALL OF OUR BRIDES AND GROOMS FOR MAKING

THE ULTIMATE AFFAIR

ONE OF THE TOP GROWING WEDDING Company's

IN THE MID-ATLANTIC REGION!